Authentic Social Connections

Two recent experiences add to what I consider the good side of the technology behind social networks and communication tools that are constantly emerging.

This morning, I was jogging and came across a moleskine book on the side of the road. It was a little wet from the sprinklers, but it was obvious someone did not intend to “store” it there. I grabbed it and finished my run… in fact, I kept thinking a number of the people I saw along the way must have wondered why I felt compelled to jog with a notebook in my hand! :)

I saw the name inside the notebook. Got to my computer. The first place I turned to was Facebook to search for this guy. Sure enough, from his profile I could easily tell it was him. I clicked on “send ___ a message” and told him about the find.

Later today I’ll connect with him out near my home and get it back to him. Easy. Quick. Non-invasive. Benefit for the both of us… feels good to find something when you know what it feels like to lose something, plus he has his book back now.

Earlier this year I posted about a chance encounter I had on a flight home to Austin. I was so touched by my interaction with Dawn that I felt like I had to share the way she approached adversity with honor and commitment. She and two of her children are now serving in Iraq with the MN National Guard, leaving her husband and teenage daughter back home.

Just a few days after posting the story, I was surprised to see a post from Dawn’s husband, Todd.  Then several other people with family in the military shared their own experiences. Eventually, her young daughter, Meagan, even posted her feelings and gratitude to those who had shared support. Together, we were able to share thoughts and a common sense of respect for someone who would never promote it herself. And it isn’t about pointing a spotlight on Dawn, it is about expressing appreciation for goodness, honor, and respect.

This person captured my reactions, too:

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Just a few weeks ago another comment to my post on Dawn came from a friend of hers from years ago.

Picture 7Dawn’s husband, Todd, replied and explained Dawn had talked about her friend many times over the years. I assume they’ve since connected and she’s been able to send a care package to Dawn.

My point in sharing all of this? Ambient awareness through social networking tools has a good side. Used for uplifting purposes we can find good and honorable people, things, and experiences.

Likely, I will never meet Todd and Lois and others who have shared in this story. But I’m a better person knowing what they’ve shared. How cool is it that we can facilitate such connections today?

Sure, these tools have as many, if not more, negative sides.

But I appreciate the good that can come. In the end, authentic connections between people on issues that matter will drown out the self-interest and negative scheming via online social networks. In my world, these are two examples of what I mean…

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  1. Vickie Brustuen #
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    My daughter is over with Dawn for a second deployment. It was fun to read about your encounter with Dawn on their flight. All the soldiers are my heroes because they have put their lives on hold to go over and help defend my freedom that I many times take for granted living in the U.S. They are a highly dedicated bunch of men and women. It’s not easy for any of them to be deployed and have their lives and their families’ lives disrupted to serve but they go willingly with full knowledge that they are doing a duty for our country. They are proud of their calling and we need to stand behind them and support them in any way we can. Make sure to thank any soldier you see for their service to our great country.

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    I AGREE. MY DAUGHTER IS OVER THERE AND EVERYONE TELLS US HOW PROUD THEY ARE OF HER AND THAT THEY ARE PRAYING FOR HER AND THE OTHERS. FACEBOOK IS AN AWESOME WAY TO KEEP IN TOUCH AND THE COMPUTER SERVICE WORKS WELL NO MATTER THE DISTANCE. GOD BLESS ALL THE SOLDIERS AND THEIR FAMILIES AND MAY THEY ALL ARRIVE HOME SAFE.

  3. K. Meyer #
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    My husband is full-time with the National Guards and is deployed right now for his second time since 2005, but this time he takes with him our daughter. Wow! Who would have thought? As much as I miss them and wish they could be home with us, our pride is overflowing!! It is unbelievable how much dedication and bravery it takes to put your whole life on hold, leave your family, and go overseas for the cause of freedom! I feel so many people don’t realize what a sacrifice it is. We have so many selfless soldiers deployed right now. We can NEVER forget their love of country and their sacrifice for their country. Hats off to all of them!!

  4. Lynn Wenzel #
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    Hi. Yes God bless all those who are serving our country! My husband was on a 15 pass and I just took him back to the airport this morning. It has been a tough day for me as this is his second deployment and he will be back in April. We have three boys ages 17, 15, and 8. They are so proud of their dad and all who are serving our country. We pray everyday and light a candle for all to come home safely. God Bless You!!



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